Suprise Salaries by working at home
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The U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics reports that at last count, 13.7 million Americans were telecommuting. Only one in four had a formal agreement in place with their employers. The vast majority simply arrange with a supervisor to spend a day or two a week out of the office.
In Pursuit of a Telecommute
Highly educated workers were the most likely to telecommute, according to the BLS study. If telecommuting is your goal, career training can be a good first step. Online degree programs are also a great way to see if you've got motivation and discipline it takes to work independently.
The BLS advises telecommuting hopefuls to seek out employers with established telework programs. Certain jobs and industries are more prone to this arrangement, and some of them pay really well. Here are seven stay-home jobs with standout salaries.
Sales Representatives
More than ever, big companies are farming out their sales forces. But instead of jobs going overseas, they're going to the suburbs. According to the BLS, one in five sales reps telecommute. The highest paying sales jobs usually involve technical and scientific products. These sales jobs are more likely to require a bachelor's degree. Studying marketing, business, or communications can be excellent preparation for this line of work.
Stay-Home Salary: $68,270
Financial Analysts
Financial analysts help large companies and non-profit organizations figure out how, when, and where to invest their money. Often employed by investment banks, mutual funds, and insurance companies, the independent nature of the work lends itself to working from the home office. You'll need a bachelor's degree in finance, business administration, economics, or accounting to get in on the ground floor.
Stay-Home Salary: $70,400
Personal Financial Advisors
This is another high finance, home-office profession. Instead of working with large endowments, personal financial advisors help individuals manage their money, protect their assets, and plan for retirement. Financial advisors work for financial services firms or investment and planning firms. A minimum of a bachelor's degree in finance, business administration, or accounting is required.
Stay-Home Salary: $67,660
Web Designers
Two career paths that are particularly well suited to telecommuting are graphic design and computing. These career paths intersect for the job of Web developers, also called Web designers. These creative techies craft a Web site's look and make sure it functions. Most employers are looking for a bachelor's degree, and many schools offer programs specifically in Web site design.
Stay-Home Salary: $47,000 to $71,500
Software Developers
These tech-savvy telecommuters design and develop commuter applications. Therefore, they need to be well versed in programming languages as well as operating systems. A bachelor's degree in computer science or software engineering is required, but your education is likely to pay off. The BLS predicts 38 percent growth through 2016, making this one of the nation's fastest growing occupations.
Stay-Home Salary: $83,130
Accountant
Accounting is all about keeping the fiscal house in order--paying taxes, reporting earnings, analyzing budgets, and guiding investments. The individual nature of the work allows many accountants to routinely work from home. Certification and a degree in accounting are typical job requirements.
Stay-Home Salary: $57,060
Marketing Manager
Managers (in any department) are more likely to regularly work from home. Marketing managers may find creativity blooms with the freedom of the home office. Increasingly, a master's degree in business administration is becoming the norm for marketing managers, though a good track record and a bachelor's degree may suffice.
Stay-Home Salary: $104,400
The Truth Behind the Telecommute
Technically, to be considered a telecommuter you must regularly works eight or more paid hours at home each week. Telecommuting can cut down on a killer commute or carve out more time for the kids. It can help you find a better work-life balance. But let's be clear--there are a few things telecommuting is not designed for.
It is not a substitute for child care. Imagine trying to hold a conference call while entertaining your two-year-old.
It is not for the recluse. The key to successful telecommuting is communication, particularly with your supervisors.
It is not entry-level workers. According to the BLS Occupational Outlook Quarterly, it is far more effective for employees to make a case for telecommuting after proving their value.
Working at home can help you save on skyrocketing gas prices, but it makes financial sense for your employer, too. A study done for the Federal Reserve Bank of Dallas showed telecommuters earning $44,000 a year saved their company an average of $10,000. And, telecommuting options improve morale, productivity, and worker retention.
thats alot of money huh?I wish i can earn that much ... *dreaming*
Unlock his body language when dating
He extends his palm
-When a guy offers his palm to you faceup, you know handsdown he's hooked.He's literally and figuratively reaching out to the person he's speaking with an attempt to connect on a deeper emotional level.Even cooloer , our brains respond hand gestures heightened alertness, so you actually feel the love.
He leans in close
-a dude who wants to get intimate will often invade your personal space.In normal interaction, men possition themselves a foot and a half to 2 feet away. But a guy who has sex with you on the brain will stand less than an arm length with you or closer because he's trying to connect physically and create intimacy.
He sits on his hands
-If a guy is sitting on his mitts, he's trying to control whats coming out from his mouth. But this is more about not wanting to scew up than it is about with handling information.He's worried that he will do something that will displease you- he wants to put his best foot forward so that he's diciplining himself.
He has a big, broad expression often with everything showing teeth, gums and cavities
-Consider it the " Wow, you give me butterflies, Im head over heels smile" It's accompanied by hearty laugh,look out. If he were more into you , he might drop down on 1 knee.
He talks with his hand
-A guy who fequently gestures with his hand while speaking in a very good communication. Between the sheets , this expressive hottie will be inttentive and generous.
He says goodbye bye by planting one on you
-If you and your guy regularly part with a lengthy lip lock, then damn your'e lucky.A man with good bye MO is incredibly passionate and highly erotic.
His touch is firm
-Stronger contact from your lust charged cutie usually means he has one thing on his mind. And if he's a contants groper he's insatiable.He's up to sex anytime anywhere.
He says goodbye with a soft peck
-If 9 times out of 10 he plants a soft,tender kiss on your cheek , then he is the sensitive type.This is how he shows that he wants to take care of you.
He Slouches His shoulder
-When a man finds a woman's actions to be adorable or sweet, he gets the urge to hold her.As a result his shoulders automatically round of as though he about to take her into his arms.
He Laugh Easily
-It's means that he is relaxed with you.He's letting his guard down and comfortably expressing his emotions, which a man does when he's thinking long term.
He Licks his lips
-A man in lust will literally look like he's hungry, because on a carnel level, that juicy piece of fruit or for sex. So if you catch him doing these lip moves while he 's looking at you, chance are good as you wet his erotic appetite.
He strokes your head or back
-For these touchy feely guy, sex and love go hand in hand. That's why he uses a sensuous stroke to let you know he cares. He will take his time in bed with you and constantly suggest new ways to mix up your routine.
He touches the small of your back , your upper thigh or your sides
-If a guy is sexually aroused, he'll touch these sensual,sensitive areas , not even bothering with the gradual buildup, like holding your hand or stroking your arm.
He proudly holds your hands in public
-he wants to show the world that you are his. That indicates that he's the type who craves a close relationship.
He's a combo hug and kisser
-They have variety and excitement.He's full of suprise in and out of bed.and he needs a woman who can keep up.
His kiss is long and lusty
-A full blown kiss smooch that lasts more than 10 sec shows he's had sex with you on his brain whole day.
He pinches your butt
-couple who use the flirtatious move know how to get each other attention in a sexy way. Its a playful gesture.
He walks in sync with your stride
-strolling down the street together, arm in arm signals a hormaorny between you. When you walk together with your arms linked around each other waist, it indicate that you are not just lovers but good friends too.
He kissed your forehead
-A true romantic, this sensitive dude will only whip up a dinner for you.(served with candlelight)
he'll ask about your day while he's at it.
You're happy to lean your heads together
-It shows trust
He sweeps a strand of hair out of your face while gazing at your eyes
-Its a declaration of togetherness. In private, in a way to say silently " I want to take care of you".
How to Read His body Language during 1st meeting
First Meeting
He lifts his eyebrows
-when a man sees someone he's into, he'll automatically lift and lower his eyebrows,wrinkling his forehead in the process. But you have to keep your eyes peeled to catch a glimpse of this signal. Anthropologists call it the eyebrow flash because it's usually lightning quick.
He touch his belt or jeans pocket
-If he touch his belt, hangs his thumb off a front pocket, or even scratches himself down there, you may need to hose him down. He is trying to draw your attention to his - ehem asset.
He possition his chest and shoulder towards you, even though he may be looking at something else
-Whether its you, your best friend or the keg in the corner, whatever a boy aims his upper body at is the most meaningful thing in the room to him. So if 1 night a tasty man approaches your posse, you and your friends dont have to fight for the fella affections, study his body language and you know who is he after.
He stands with his leg spread appart
-A guy will often stand with his legs spread appart and pelvis facing you when he's hot for you. It's a primal biological instinct and most guys dont even know they are doing it.
He stands and he sits with his toes point towards each other
-This means he's feeling a little unsure of himslef. So if a boy in a bar striking this pose, he's digging you but needs reassurance that the interest is mutual.
He has a coy- mouth grin that shows only at the corners of his upturned mouth
-Rest assured like you, but he doesn't want to reveal to much too soon. He's probably a bit shy (and possible insecure) so he wont pull of all his emotion on the line right away.
He smiles with his topped lip stretched wide and his front teeth are just barely peeking trough
-This tight lipped look is a polite signal that while he enjoys your company, the romantic spark may not be there. But that doesn't mean his feeling cant develope.
He holds a long pierching gaze
-Although you may think he smitten, he could be playing you. Holding intense eye contact for more than five sec doesn't happen naturally, so he may be using his look as a seduction technique to get you into bed.
He tilts his head slightly to the side when your eyes meet
-The head tilt is a subconscious come-hither signal to any femme the guy has feelings for. So if that man you've making eyes with for the last hours gives you the head tilt, that's your cue to go in for the kill or introduce yourself or send him a drink.
He half smiles
-There's a good chance this guy just wants a no-string fling. "A sneerlike grin is an indication that he is not being sincere with you.
He has a devilish smirk where he raise the right or left side of his close mouth
-You'll have to play hard to get with this boy if you want to hook him.A guy with a grin like this thrives when presented with abit of challenge. Catch him if you can.
next post is about during dating ~ Stay tune
The ANOTHER way of sex (18SX+++)
Do you know what are they? What do they mean? How does it works?
Long time ago, when i was young, i did have a similiar thing happen to me like AGNES. Yes, i was very naive that i didn't know anything about the "internet" . To some, internet is very good resource but to some , they are dirty. Sometimes when i searching for graphic in a GRAPHIC SITE, it then pop out an porny- advertisement. like wtf? It's damn gross ok. what's more gross is that desperate guys on the net want to have cam sex with you, especially if they know you are a girl. For example, some public chatting site. If you place your email there, they will add you up and then the 1st thing they do is asking you "do u have a cam"? like omg, doesn't mean i have a cam means i need to do that with you right? Some, they didn't even ask you, they send you an cam invite . Of cause you must acept only you can see right? If a stranger send you 1 , just dont acept unless you seen him/her in person.
As i know, many western love to cyber...why? Actually i also dont know why. Maybe they are utra horny ,maybe not enough girls? or maybe their population is too much that there are many phycho freaks there. THE WORLD IS DIRTY. In the older days people use to have phone sex, but now cause it's the new genaration and people are using computers. phone change to internet -_-. gosh.
For those of you want to know what is Cyber/phone sex (is not that im interested, just for knowledge).
here it is:
- Cyber or phone Sex usually involved in sex talk on the phone or over the internet.Sometimes, one or both masturbates as they talk sex stuff -_-. (showing private part to the other party cam to cam)..next
- Its a way to have S without getting any risk
- almost like watching porn (dont ask me that)
- Some do it for fun *yucks*
- Some do it to earn extra income (they show 5 sec, if you want more , you have to pay)
- Couple's who are seperated by distance for example LDR use this method to stay close apart.
- people in committed relationships use this method to have outside sexual activity that they don’t see as cheating. Some think it's cheating and some don't , its depends on the couple.
- Cyber and phone sex have no risk of pregnancy or disease, since you aren’t in physical contact with the other person.
- Cyber and phone sex can be dangerous if you exchange number / adresses if you dont know who is your partner.
- people can lie about their age, sex, and who they are.
- Sexual predators – rapists, pedophiles often disguise themselves and go online to lure young people into sexual encounters, porno /prostitution and other illegal and dangerous activities.
- it’s important to never arrange a personal meeting with someone you only know through the Internet. People have been hurt and even killed by agreeing to meet with people they only know online.(that is so true)
How to Avoid:
I usually just say, i dont have a cam, sorry. go fuck yourself xDsometimes you can just ignore them =)
Nowdays not only it happen to girl but it happen to guys too. There are many horny girls out there, so guys beware. I know guys will sure enjoy it. -_- but to me, its like another type of prostitute.As long as a site that allow you to see 101 using the webcam, you should be aware that this thing can happen anytime.
What are Bad Friends

Do you actually know who you hang out with? Are "best friends" really do last?
I breakup with my bestie two times. One of them asking me for money and she never return back to me.(i never heard of her after she ask for that money,gezz) Another 1 is cause she ditched me. But now, i be-friend back with my friend that ditched me. (actually is a long story behind both of my bestie)
How do you know if he/she is bad friend?
#1 She puts you down
insulting in front of your face/ slapping you is a big NO NO. Your friend is not your mother or father, she have no right to do so.If one day you had a bad day or just brokeup with your lover and your friend have no respect towards you, you can try talk to your friend about your feelings on how she he treat you. Maybe your friend will feel bad? or guilty? If she's a good friend, she will realise and change her behaviour , if she doesn't .. i think you better call it OFF!
#2 She ditched you
I hate people who ditched me, for example i ask her out on Friday but when it comes to Friday.. i call her and she didn't pick up. A few mins later, you receive a text saying all kinda excuses just to cancel the date. gosh . Actually its good that she leave you alone for some private life, but if she constantly do that, she's not giving respect.
#3 She tells your secret
If you only tell one person your secret and suddenly everybody know's. You already know who spread it. If she cant keep you secret, she is betraying your trust and hurting you. Actually it depends what kind of secret your friend tells. If she tells them that you have food disorder, then its good cause they can pass the message to the counsellor and then to your parents. But if its secret about your love life, then you might just want to leave her.
#4 She Steals Your Guy
hey, there are many guys out there, why do you need to fight over a guy? It is rude if you quietly date your bestie boyfriend. And sometimes fight does happen when both likes the same guy, and they fight on who did he admire 1st. -_- The guy may feel bored and just leave .
#5 She steals your money
If your friend want to borrow money from you, that require big trust
fiy: a good friend is always by your side no matter what ,support you and build you up. If she consistently drag you down is not really your friend. So, just hang out more with positives friends. You can still hang out with the negatives ones but if she still continue to hurt you, just call it OFF. It'll be hard at 1st but it's like any breakup that you'll feel better in the long run.
Kissing Tips

Some kissing tips for Biginners O.o
Step 1.
Maintain eye contact right up untill your lips touch - this will not only help build the excitement but will stop you from smushing noses. If staring at someone up close freaks you out,look at the space between his eyes (he won't be able to tell the difference.
Tilt Your Head as you lean in and open your mouth slightly. Touch his mouth with yours and then move your lips into a pout shape. Keep opening your mouth slightly and then making your lips pout until you feel comfortable. (you can always pull away and start over i you feel like it)
Step 3.
As you both start to relax,gently run your tongue across his bottom lip.
Step 4.
When you get bored (or get a crick in your neck), tilt your head the other way and startover again.
Step 5
Enjoy yourself-work out how you like to be kissed.Tell him what you like,and make the most of it!
Training BAD KISSER
If he is too rough - Pull away and tell him that you love it when he kisses you gently and slowly,then show him what you mean.
If He has bad Breath - Carry Gum around with you and offer it to him in strategic moments untill he gets the message!
If He Slobbers - Try closing your mouth more when you kiss , but if that doesn,t work say something like "i love it when you kiss me softly". Its about communication!
To The ADVANCED
Lip-o-suction - You kiss his lower lip while he kisses your upper lip, then reverse. Start soft, then play around with pressure.
Nibbling - The secret to kissing is variety. To spice things up try start with a lip o suction style kiss, then gently nibble on his bottom lip. If he seems to like it you can then experiment with intensity.
French - Start off with a normal kiss , then nudge his mouth open with your tongue. Gently explore his mouth with your tongue, then let him explore yours.
Vacuum - This happens when you and your boy creates an air tight seal with your lips. This kiss is really intimate, and can make you fell breathless
Some reference are from "Girlfriend " Mag
How To: Live A CHANNEL Life
If you think Glamorous lifestyle is way out of reach because of your McDonald's wages,think again.A few changes to the way you manage your money could change all that. It's a hard knock life for us no more..Below are some savings tips- take them on board and watch the cash roll in!
- Designate one weekend evening where you stay home. Hire a DVD and cuddle up to your boy or have a food and gossip session with your girlfriends.
- Take your spring cleaning one step further by selling your stuff on eBay or other method like selling at college or to friends. One girlfriend's trash is another treasure!
- Empty your loose change into a jar at the end of the day,and deposit the lot into your savings account each month.
- Join the loyalty programs of your favourite cinemas and stores and take advantage of their discount offer and rewards.
- Think before you buy.Try to head to a stores that have discount going on.
- Best sellers are best savers! Save by buying books at payless or a bookshop that have discount and offer.( for overseas place like Target is a must)
- Use your consession at cinema, on public transport, and certain events, so work it, baby!
- Subscribe to your favourite mag - Save on the newsstand price and get a cool pressie for doing it too.
- Buy your basics,like T-shirts and undies at Factory Outlets or Brands Outlets. It's not like their styles ever change.
- Make your own lunch .Not only is it healthier, but it will save you a fortune considering how quickly it adds up when you buy it everyday.
- Save petrol by only use car or motor if you have to go to a long journey. If not, try take public transport like bus or LRT or KTM (for malaysians).Or even a bike.
And Lastly
While its true that money makes the world go round, it's important to remember that it does not buy you happiness. Use these saving tips to maximise your living potential,but don't turn into a complete scrooge,workaholic or shallow,designer-clad brat! Avoid extremes and have fun making money don't use it too sparingly and don't let it rule your life-it is definitely not worth it at the expense of your dignity and loves ones (and a true Channel girl would not be caught dead behaving this way) happy researching,saving, shopping and splurging!
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